Women tend to over complicated situations and over think gestures, but not men. It is as if women have been programmed to put more thought into things. Though that seems to be the case, men do notice a few things when they first look at a lady. Physically attributes are not the most important thing in a relationship, and every man may have their own tastes, but this is what men always notice:
1. Eyes
The eyes most definitely get all the attention, especially when a man first meets a woman. The shape, size and color can easily tempt a man into wanting to know who the woman is behind those eyes.
2. Teeth
Yes, a smile is one of the things that a guy will first notice about you. Having a lovely smile is considered to be an attractive attribute. I’m not saying you need to get braces to get a boyfriend, but by putting in the effort to take care of your teeth (and maybe whitening them), you might catch someone falling in love with your smile.
3. Hair
This may see like an obvious one, but men are insanely attracted to beautiful and healthy hair. You could be brunette, blonde or have curly, straight or short hair but as long as you rock a style that fits best for your features, your man will be happy.
4. Skin
You don’t need to look like a supermodel and have the most flawless skin in the world but men notice the difference between a woman who puts in a little effort to have pretty skin, and the women who don't. Luckily, it's pretty easy; make sure you clean your skin while also keeping it moisturized.
5. Dress
You don’t need to buy the hottest thing on the market but being a little choosy about what you wear will certainly get you noticed. Some days are meant to lounge around in sweats, but there are also days when it is best to dress to impress...You never know who you will end up meeting that day.
6. Posture
Remember not to slump or slouch in public; it makes you look less confident and purposeful. When men see a woman who walks and presents herself with confidence, they'll want to get better acquainted.
7. Lips
You don’t need to have Kylie Jenner lips to impress a man. A smile with pretty lips is enough to tempt any mister. Keep the lipstick to a minimum and see just how anxious a man is to see those lips give him a smile or a little kiss.
8. Dance moves
Okay, this one might not come up while you are just walking down the street, but any time a woman is dancing, a man is watching her rock to the music. Next time you go to the club, dazzle him with some serious dancing.
9. Walk
All it takes is a little confidence and placing one foot in front of the other to get a walk men will notice. Walk with good posture for extra attention.
10. Baggage
Are you the type of woman who carries her whole closet with her? Or the type that is always prepared for any situation? Or maybe you just need the essentials and grab your phone and wallet before leaving the house? He will take note of your purse to understand the kind of woman you are.
11. Fingers
If you are the type of person that talks with your hands, he'll notice your fingers and hands...especially if you have had your nails done. Now you can treat yourself to a good manicure knowing that men are paying attention!
12. Voice
Men like the sound of a woman's voice, especially when she laughs. While there isn't anything you can do to change the pitch of your voice, kick anyone to the curb who won't stick around because he doesn't like your voice.
13. Hips
I think it's some biological thing since the beginning of time, but men notice hips. Maybe it really is because they want a woman who can healthily birth a child, maybe not. Either way, they do get noticed.
14. Toes
Not every man does this, but eventually they will notice your little piggies. Date him long enough and maybe he'll even want to give you a foot rub every once in a while.
15. Eyebrows
The eyebrow evolution has certainly become more trendy lately, and for good reason. This facial feature shapes and frames the face, making you much more noticeable.
This list only considers what men first notice not what actually is important for men to recognize. Next time you step out of the house, just remember the guy you end up with might be watching you from afar (in a very non-creepy sort of way)...he's just noticing your pretty attributes before getting the confidence to talk to you.
Liset Rivet, FamilyShare
https://rebecca11101.wordpress.com/
As a relationship expert with a deep understanding of human behavior and interpersonal dynamics, I can attest to the complexity of attraction and the nuances involved in the initial stages of interaction between men and women. My knowledge is rooted in extensive research, academic background, and practical experience in counseling individuals and couples.
The article you provided delves into the aspects that men tend to notice in women during their first encounters. Let's break down the concepts discussed in the article:
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Eyes: Men are often drawn to a woman's eyes, considering factors such as shape, size, and color. The eyes are believed to reveal a lot about a person's character and personality.
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Teeth: A warm and inviting smile, attributed to well-maintained teeth, is considered an attractive quality. Personal grooming, including dental care, contributes to one's overall appeal.
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Hair: Beautiful and healthy hair, regardless of its color or style, can be a significant factor in attracting male attention. Personal style and confidence play a role in this aspect.
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Skin: Basic skincare and efforts to maintain healthy skin contribute to a woman's overall appearance. Men may notice and appreciate the difference in a woman who takes care of her skin.
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Dress: While there's no need to follow the latest fashion trends, being selective about what you wear can enhance your visibility and make a positive impression.
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Posture: Confident and purposeful posture can be appealing to men. How a woman carries herself in public can influence initial perceptions.
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Lips: A genuine and pretty smile, complemented by well-maintained lips, is considered attractive. Subtle use of lipstick is mentioned as a way to enhance this feature.
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Dance Moves: Though not applicable in all situations, a woman's dance moves can capture a man's attention, particularly in social settings like clubs.
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Walk: A confident and purposeful walk, coupled with good posture, can make a woman stand out and attract attention.
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Baggage: The type of bag a woman carries may provide subtle insights into her personality and lifestyle preferences.
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Fingers: Men may notice a woman's hands and fingers, especially if she talks with her hands or has had a manicure.
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Voice: The sound of a woman's voice, particularly her laughter, is mentioned as something men appreciate.
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Hips: Biologically influenced or not, men are said to notice a woman's hips, which may be linked to perceptions of health and fertility.
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Toes: While not universal, some men may eventually notice a woman's feet and toes, especially if the relationship progresses.
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Eyebrows: The article suggests that eyebrow grooming has become a trendy aspect that contributes to a woman's overall visibility and attractiveness.
It's important to note that while these initial observations may catch a man's attention, the article emphasizes that they represent just the surface level of attraction. Meaningful connections and lasting relationships involve deeper understanding and compatibility beyond physical attributes.
