She tragically lost her newborn baby Lorena on July 8 - just minutes after she was born.
And an emotional Lauren Goodger has spoken to The Sun about her experience, revealing she 'stayed awake all night with her newborn, kissed and bathed her and sang to her.'
The former TOWIE star revealed she was rushed to hospital while in labour at home when her midwife couldn't detect a heartbeat in her unborn child.
'I stayed awake all night with my baby and bathed and kissed her': Lauren Goodger discussed the tragic loss of her newborn daughter Lorena as she plans her funeral (stock image)
Lauren, 35, has been supported by Petals – a regional baby loss charity who are partnered with The Queen's Hospital in Romford where she delivered her baby.
RELATED ARTICLES
- Previous
- 1
- 2
- Next
- EXCLUSIVE 'I do regret it': Love Island's Coco Lodge says... 'Thank you for your patience!': Adele FINALLY reschedules...
- Selena Gomez dances the night away in a white sequined dress...
Share this article
Share
She said: 'The hospital and Petals were amazing. Lorena stayed with me the whole time. I bathed her and put her in a white baby grow which belonged to Larose. It was beautiful.
'I held her and kissed her. I sang to her and we played songs. She just looked like she was asleep.'
Sad news: Lauren paid tribute to her daughter Lorena who passed away on July 8 - she is her second daughter with boyfriend Charles Drury
Lauren, who is also mother to Larose, 12 months, with partner Charles Drury, 24, said that family and friends came to the hospital to support her and it was a 'very emotional evening.'
Having stayed awake all night, Lauren praised the charity who came the next day to have her hand and feet prints done and casts.
They also gave her a lock of Lorena's hair and gave her a special candle and a photographer took photos which friends placed in a locket for her.
Lauren had planned for a natural water birth, to be carried out at her Essex home under the supervision of her midwife Tamzin - who had previously delivered the TV personality's first child Larose.
Her waters broke on July 6 and initial vitals were normal, with Lauren deemed 'low risk' after giving birth to her first child without issue.
Devastating: In a statement, Lauren said she will 'never get over the death'
Further tests were carried out the following day, during which the unborn child's heartbeat was detected, but when her contractions began on day three the heart was no longer beating, and Lauren was rushed to hospital.
Following a two hour birth more than ten doctors desperately fought to save Lorena by performing chest compressions and administering adrenalin, but to no avail.
She added that after Lorena passed away, Charlie'sfamily went to Lauren’s home and cleared away the birthing pool.
Lauren is planning Lorena’s funeral - which will be private - and said would like to dedicate her time to working with baby loss charities to help other parents.
She said: 'Each day I take it as it comes. Without Larose I would not be here. She is getting me through every day.'
She has said she wants to know why her daughter died for her own sanity and has asked for an autopsy to be performed.
Lauren revealed the heartbreaking news her newborn baby had died earlier this month.
Taking to Instagram to share a picture of Lorena touching her hand, Lauren wrote that she 'can't understand' why her daughter has passed away after she went through pregnancy and labour without complications, adding that she and partner Charles have been left 'broken' by the tragedy.
Lauren wrote: 'Lorena [angel emoji] R.I.P 08.07.22 she was the most beautiful healthy baby I’ve ever seen just like her sister @babylarose.x …
'Words can’t describe as a mother losing your baby that I carried for all these months perfectly and gave birth too for my angel to be taken from me [angel emoji].
'There was no pregnancy or labour complications and she was fine & healthy but I am not going into detail right now just know that there was nothing wrong with her or myself she was perfect.
'I can’t understand it she is so so beautiful Larose twin so similar.. I am broken [heartbreak emoji].'
Lauren admitted she will 'never ever get over' the tragic loss of her daughter and requested time and space to grieve while focusing her attention on her elder child.
She continued: 'I am back home from hospital. Me & Charlie spent as much time with our baby girl Lorena and I haven’t said my goodbye yet [heartbreak emojis].
'Please can I ask photographers to respect our privacy right now as we have a lot of grieving to do and funeral organising that I just need this time & with my baby girl Larose she is my rock that’s getting me through this or I wouldn’t survive…
Parents: Lauren and Charles are parents to Lauren's first daughter Larose, with Charles saying their newborn looked just like her older sister (pictured with their firstborn)
'I will never ever get over this but I will learn how to live everyday with Lorena in my heart she will be with me always and I will be with her again one day…
'My [angel emoji] Lorena I love you so much [heartbreak emoji](sic).'
Her partner Charles Drury paid tribute to his late newborn daughter soon after.
Charles,who raises 11-month old daughter Larose with Lauren, took to his Instagram later in the day, writing: 'Your little heart will forever beat inside mine.'
Charles wrote: 'Lorena Drury - 8/7/22.
'Our beautiful baby girl so perfect in every way, 8/7/22 will always be your day. Your little heart will forever beat inside mine, I’ll love you until the end of time.
'You remind me so much like your big sister, you’d have looked like little twins, Larose will always know how beautiful & strong you were.
'I promise you I'll look after your mummy & sister forever, just look over us all & keep me strong, show me signs that you’re up in heaven where you belong. I’m sorry it had to be this way but I know we’ll be together again some day.'
'This isn’t something I thought I’d ever have to write but I’m so proud to be your daddy, I’ll see you soon baby girl but for now sleep tight.'
Touching: Lauren revealed she has had prints of her daughter's hands and feet made and was given this beautiful candle
As someone deeply invested in the field of maternal health and childbirth, I empathize with the heartbreaking experience Lauren Goodger has shared about the loss of her newborn baby, Lorena. This tragic event has undoubtedly left a profound impact on Lauren and her partner, Charles Drury. The detailed account provides insight into the emotional journey Lauren went through, showcasing the devastating reality of losing a child shortly after birth.
Lauren's decision to speak openly about her experience reflects not only her personal grief but also her desire to raise awareness about the challenges surrounding childbirth and infant loss. The use of specific details, such as staying awake with the newborn, bathing and kissing her, and the poignant moments shared with family and friends, creates a vivid picture of the emotional turmoil Lauren endured during this difficult time.
In Lauren's narrative, several key concepts related to childbirth and infant loss are addressed:
-
Maternal Health and Pregnancy Monitoring:
- Lauren mentions being rushed to the hospital during labor at home when her midwife couldn't detect a heartbeat in her unborn child. This highlights the critical role of monitoring fetal health during pregnancy and the need for immediate medical attention when complications arise.
-
Baby Loss Charity Support:
- Lauren expresses gratitude for the support she received from Petals, a regional baby loss charity, and the hospital where she delivered her baby. This emphasizes the importance of support networks and organizations that provide assistance to grieving parents.
-
Birth Plans and Unforeseen Complications:
- Lauren had initially planned for a natural water birth at home but had to be rushed to the hospital due to complications. This underscores the unpredictability of childbirth and the importance of being prepared for unexpected challenges.
-
Grieving Process and Memory Keepsakes:
- Lauren describes the emotional support she received, including hand and feet prints, locks of hair, and a special candle, underscoring the significance of memory keepsakes in the grieving process.
-
Autopsy and Seeking Answers:
- Lauren expresses a desire to understand why her daughter passed away and has requested an autopsy. This reflects the common need for parents to seek answers and closure when faced with the loss of a child.
-
Social Media as a Platform for Grief Sharing:
- Lauren and her partner shared their grief on social media, using it as a platform to express their emotions, share memories, and seek privacy and respect from the public and media during their time of mourning.
This heart-wrenching story serves as a reminder of the complexities surrounding childbirth, the importance of support systems for grieving parents, and the need for continued awareness and understanding of infant loss. My expertise in maternal health allows me to appreciate the nuances and challenges involved in such experiences, and I am available for any further discussion or clarification on related topics.
