How to Get Married in Tomodachi Life: 13 Steps (with Pictures) (2024)

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It is possible to get a married couple in Tomodachi Life, by following a process of ensuring compatibility, befriending, confession and then marriage. This wikiHow teaches you how to get married in Tomodachi Life.

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    Make a boy and girl Mii. They could be children, but adults cannot marry children Tomodachi Life. Children will be given an Age-O-Matic before they marry to turn them into adults.

  2. 2

    Choose the right personality. While looks/voice don't matter, personalities do. If you change the personalities of one of the Miis later on, there is a chance their affection will change. Even if they do get married, it could be rocky and lead to divorce.

    • You can view the personality chart in the apartment's office.
    • Your Miis' zodiacs have an effect on their compatibility, so take care choosing birthdays.

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    Get the Miis to meet each other. It's usually up to you how they become friends. The topic they talk about is important. If you make the wrong choices, they won't become friends. You will need to try again at a different event.

    • The friendship level will start out as yellow/gold. It rises or falls as they become better or worse friends. The worst friendship is teal colored, and it will say "Not getting along" in the US version, or "Not a great match" in the European version.
    • You can use the compatibility tester to check compatibility, but this is only based on their birthday and is not affected by their relationship.
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Becoming Sweethearts

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    Tap the pink heart when you see it. Eventually one of the apartment windows of a Mii will have a pink heart. Tap the pink heart if you see it. The Mii will ask the player if they should confess their love.

    • A Mii might also say "I think [Mii's name] likes me." If you select Go for it!, they might ask them out.
  2. 2

    Tell the Mii how to confess. The Mii will ask for advice on how to confess. You can select from the following options:[1]

    • Be traditional.
    • Be romantic.
    • Be desperate.
    • Be showy (US), or be impressive (EUR)
    • Be cute.
    • Use a line (type your own line for the Mii to use).
    • Sing a song.
    • Give a present. (Select a present of food, treasure, or special food for the Mii to give as a present).
  3. 3

    Select where you want your Mii to confess. You can select where you want to the Mii to confess from the following locations:

    • Beach
    • Tower
    • Park
    • School
    • Concert hall.
    • Cafe.
    • Some of these options may be unavailable depending on how much progress you have made in the game.
  4. 4

    Change clothes. Next your Mii will ask if they should change clothes. If you say yes, you can then select the clothes you want them to change into. Then they will go to the selected location and wait for their crush to show up. If they show up, they will do the actions you selected for them.

    • You can only change the Mii into clothes the you have already given them.
    • If it succeeds, the other Mii will become a "Sweetheart" or "Special Someone", depending on which region you are in.
      • In in American version, it will say "Sweetheart", in the European version, it will say "Special Someone".
    • If it fails, you can try again later, but it will be located at the beach, and they will give a gift. If it fails a second time, they will see they're not to be and their depression goes down.
      • Tap on the thought bubble, which should be a picture of the Mii they got rejected by, and this might make them retry.
    • If the relationship between the two isn't good enough, the other Mii will reject your Mii by not showing up.
    • Beware! If two or three Miis like the same person, there is a chance that Mii will show up. The promised Mii might choose any of the two or three, or ultimately none. But keep in mind, three Miis is rarer than two.
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    Check in on the couple. The relationship will need to develop before they can get married. Check-in on them occasionally to see how well their relationship is going.

  6. 6

    Give them travel tickets. To help the couple along, give them travel tickets so that they can spend more time together.

    • Travel tickets sometimes are given as a reward for helping Miis out.
    • Keep in mind which Mii they choose to take may not be the one you want.
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Proposing to Your Sweetheart

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    Tap the pink heart over your Mii. If the relationship is going well, a heart will eventually appear over your Mii in their apartment. When you tap the heart, the Mii will tell you they want to propose to their sweetheart. Unlike the confession, you cannot tell the Mii to wait.

    • The proposal will only happen if their friendship is dark green and says, "Let's get married!" in the US version, or "Want to get married" in the European version.
  2. 2

    Choose where you want to propose. You can propose at the following locations:

    • Fireworks show.
    • Train station.
    • Amusem*nt park.
    • Fancy restaurant.
  3. 3

    Choose the clothes you want to wear. After you pick a location for the proposal, your Mii will ask if they should change clothes. It doesn't matter what clothes you choose for them.

    • To succeed the proposal, you must get the hearts floating above to the biggest you can be.
  4. 4

    Tap Now when the other Mii thinks about the proposer. While on a date, the other Mii will have a variety of images flash through the thought bubble over their head. Tap Now when you see the image of the Mii.

    • If you make a wrong choice or when the Mii is thinking of something else, a heart will break. If all hearts are broken, the proposal fails and the Miis will leave. You can try again later, or the other Mii may propose on their own.
    • If you succeed, the wedding happens, and the married couple goes on their honeymoon. Once they're back home, you will get a souvenir. The souvenir depends on where they go. The couple will live in a house together, but keep their apartments if they must be contacted/tended to. Although it is optional, you can also pursue the couple to later have children.[2]
    • The souvenir can be sold for money at the pawn shop or used as a gift if another Mii confesses their love, but has no other use.
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    Are they spending time with each other? If they aren't, they may potentially divorce. If they are getting into fights, they may divorce, and if the relationship isn't looking good on the relationship page for either of them, they may divorce.

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      • If you are not averse to resetting to get what you want, save when you see the heart. This way if they get rejected you can just restart. Don't worry, there's no consequence for this. (Although this is arguably cheating.) You might get the same results as before, that might mean the Miis' relationship isn't good.

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      • Look out for an orange bubble on a Mii's window. Sometimes, another Mii may get two Miis together, but this could fail and they wind up as friends instead. This is not exactly bad as you can try to hook them up later. If you fail, one of the Miis who the Mii tried to hook up might ask you why the Mii thought it was a good idea.

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      • If the sweethearts are children, you must give them Age-O-Matics so they can get married at the end of the proposal. You don't need to worry about having one beforehand as one will be given to you.

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      • If there is a growing baby/child in a house, a married couple cannot divorce. However, if the child is fully grown, the parents can divorce, no matter how many children they have had.

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      1. Make a boy and girl Mii.
      2. Choose a compatible personality for the two Miis.
      3. Get them to meet.
      4. Tap the pink heart in the Mii's apartment when they want to confess their love.
      5. Tell them how to confess.
      6. Choose a location.
      7. Choose clothes for them to wear.
      8. Check in on their relationship.
      9. Give them travel tickets.
      10. Tap the pink heart above the Mii when they want to propose.
      11. Select where to propose.
      12. Select the clothes for them to wear.
      13. Tap Now when you see the Mii's face in the other Mii's thought bubble.

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      FAQs

      What are the requirements for marriage in Tomodachi Life? ›

      A marriage occurs after a certain amount of time (anywhere between months and, very rarely, under an hour) has passed and both Miis maintain a good relationship with each other. One of the two dating Miis will have a problem icon and say that they want to get married to their sweetheart.

      How do I get my Mii to have a baby? ›

      A baby is a special Mii exclusive to Tomodachi Life, created when two Miis successfully marry, then decide that they would like to have a baby.

      Can kids fall in love in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Miis can become sweethearts in two ways. The first way is the love confession, where one Mii develops feelings for their friend, so they confess their love and if the Mii being confessed accepts, the two will start to date; if rejected, the confessor will gain sadness.

      Can married Miis break up in Tomodachi Life? ›

      It is possible for a breakup or divorce to happen even with a good status. This happens after the asking Mii's apology is rejected or the third Mii fails to stop a huge fight. In Tomodachi Collection, Miis cannot get back together after a breakup.

      Can you get pregnant in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Yes, all Miis living in your island are capable of having kids, including your own lookalike.

      What happens if you delete a married Mii in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Removing a married Mii will result in the relationship broken up (as if the removed islander never existed). The house will disappear and the spouse will look for a "new" spouse. If they have a child that is grown up, the child will still remain, but not if it isn't.

      How do you get a golden Mii? ›

      Turn on your Wii and sync the remote by pressing the red sync button on the front of your wii and hold the 1 and 2 buttons on your wii remote. You could also press your Wii Remote's sync button. Next, go to the Mii Channel and Transfer your Mii to the Wii. If all was done correctly, your Mii will have golden pants!

      Can you skip time in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Changing the in-game time up to about an hour and a half does not incur a penalty. It is also safe after doing this to revert back to the original time. This is handy if the player forgets an event or for waking up Miis in their homes. However, changing the time by two hours or more will result in the usual penalty.

      Can you force marriage in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Tap the pink heart over your Mii.

      If the relationship is going well, a heart will eventually appear over your Mii in their apartment. When you tap the heart, the Mii will tell you they want to propose to their sweetheart.

      How does Tomodachi Life end? ›

      There is no end goal in Tomodachi Life: it's a fun, casual, pick-up-and-play game. No deep emotional investment is involved, as Miis can't die (like in The Sims) and – thankfully – won't miss you à-la Animal Crossing after a prolonged absence from the game.

      What happens on your birthday in Tomodachi Life? ›

      The Mii whose birthday is celebrated is in the middle, wearing a party hat and a cake in front of them, with four other Miis attending, either their friends, best friend, parents or siblings if they have any. All of the Miis will be happy; the guest Miis will sing a birthday song to the tune of "Happy Birthday To You".

      Can Miis stop being best friends? ›

      It is possible for two Miis to become best friends or lost their best friend status off-screen. Miis can no longer be best friends in the same way. It is possible that a Mii can dump their best friend by becoming best friends with another Mii. However, this will not cause any sadness.

      Can you have more than 100 Miis in Tomodachi Life? ›

      They may later live in apartment if there is space unless the player decides to let them travel. Mii Apartments will automatically upgrade to fit more Miis once it reaches a certain number of people. The final apartment can fit up to 100 Miis in total.

      Can Miis get sick in Tomodachi Life? ›

      A Mii will sometimes get sick, which is shown by a rain cloud above their head, saying that they feel unwell. The player can tell them what's wrong, or check their head (cold)/stomach (stomachache).

      Can you wake up a sleeping Mii in Tomodachi Life? ›

      When a Mii is asleep, the player will be unable to wake them up. During daytime, Miis may take a nap and can be woken up by entering their apartment, unless they are dreaming.

      Can you force love in Tomodachi Life? ›

      You can't, you have to wait until a Mii shows feelings for another Mii.

      How long does Kid O Matic last? ›

      Trivia. In the Japanese and Korean version, Age-o-matic is only temporary unless the child Mii is planning to get married. If the player deletes a Mii from a married child couple, the other Mii will automatically revert back to a kid without "The Age-o-matic wore off." message.

      How do you get a baby to stop crying in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Just tilt it like you'd tilt a Mario Kart wheel when steering. back and forth, back and forth. Find a speed AND distance of tilting. When it sparkles once, keep that pace up until it stops crying.

      What is the limit of Miis in Tomodachi Life? ›

      You can have up to 100 Miis living on your island. You can even transfer Mii characters from Mii Maker on Wii U™ to your Nintendo 3DS system.

      Can Miis become friends again in Tomodachi Life? ›

      After they apologize back, the fight will become resolved and Miis will return to being friends. Even once the apology is accepted, there is a chance of them fighting again.

      How do you get custom Miis? ›

      How to Make New Miis on Switch
      1. Select "System Settings" from the home screen.
      2. Scroll down the left sidebar and select "Mii" Nintendo/Screenshot by CNET.
      3. Select "Create/Edit a Mii" and choose how you'd like to make a character. Nintendo/Screenshot by CNET. ...
      4. Select "Done" to save your Mii.
      May 11, 2022

      Why does my Mii have blue pants? ›

      Mii characters received from other systems wear blue pants. Special Mii characters distributed by Nintendo wear golden pants.

      Who is the most skilled Mii? ›

      Best Miis
      • Barrizu | Highest skill = 9855.
      • Alomak | Highest skill = 9721+
      • Nasam | Highest skill = 9624.
      • Maliva | Highest skill = 9611.
      • Bronze | Highest skill = 9601.
      • Yon-seng | Highest skill = 9499.
      • Misami | Highest skill = 9474.
      • Ika | Highest skill = 9444.

      What color are Mii pants? ›

      Your user Mii character wears red pants and is accompanied by a golden crown icon. The user Mii characters of other users wear red pants and are accompanied by a bronze crown icon.

      How long is a day in Tomodachi Life? ›

      8:25 AM to 4:10 PM is Daytime, where the sky is a darker blue, and all Miis are awake. 4:10 PM to 6:10 PM is Evening, where the sky becomes red-orange and a crow can be heard.

      Who runs Tomodachi game? ›

      Tomodachi Game (トモダチゲーム) is a Japanese anime series based on the Tomodachi Game manga by Mikoto Yamaguchi and Yuuki Satou. The anime premiered in April 2022 and is directed by Hirofumi Ogura at Okuruto Noboru.

      How do you confess love in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Deciding to Confess
      1. Be traditional.
      2. Be romantic.
      3. Be arrogant (Collection)
      4. Be desperate.
      5. Be showy (Life)
      6. Be cute (Life)
      7. Use a line. The player may type in a phrase for the Mii to say.
      8. Sing a song.

      How do you make Miis fall in love in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Change the female's birthdate to 2/1/2003. That's all you have to do! This will not only bring the miis closer and make them bond faster and become friends quicker, but if you check the compatibility tester, they get a 100% match!

      What does orange mean in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Different statuses have different colors, which range from: Dark green (Highest) Green. Lime green. Orange (Default)

      Can Miis get jealous? ›

      Mii characters can get jealous of others getting too much attention. During this time, they won't help each other in battle. They may even fight with others in their party!

      What is friendship level 99 in Miitopia? ›

      On the other hand, the maximum friendship level in Miitopia is 99. Friendship level works a lot differently than regular levels, as players don't increase it just by gaining experience. Instead, two Miis can increase their friendship level by having positive interactions with each other.

      How do I make my Miis not sad? ›

      Curing Sadness
      1. Feed them food or give them new clothes, with the caption being "[He/She] likes it!" or better. ...
      2. Give them a new interior that is at least their favorite.
      3. Give them a travel ticket; they will travel alone without any friends or relatives.
      4. Ask a Mii to find their sad friend a sweetheart.

      What is the highest Tomodachi Life level? ›

      The level cap is 99. Level 99 Miis can still level up as normal, but the number will not increase any further.

      How many Mii can you have? ›

      Wii consoles can store up to 100+ Miis, up to 10 that can be favorites. The Wii Remote itself can hold up to 10 Miis on its internal memory, which can later be transferred to another Wii console.

      How much health does the final boss in Tomodachi Quest have? ›

      If all the Miis are defeated, the game is over. Except for the boss, which has 2800 HP, the HP of the opposing food or item is either their worth in money without a decimal (Europe and North America) [e.g. £1.00 or $1.00 becomes 100 HP] or the amount of yen it is worth (Japan).

      How do you unlock girl charm ranking? ›

      Girl Charm Ranking: Unlocks after a male confesses his love. "Check out who the most desirable gals on your island are." Pampered Ranking: Unlocks after solving 90 problems.

      Why does Tomodachi Life crash? ›

      If a Mii has a dream that utilizes the camera and the 3DS camera is broken, the game will crash. Sometimes if the player touches the stomach of a really short Mii, they can see strange graphical effects in it.

      Can Miis have crushes in Miitopia? ›

      There is no romance in the traditional sense in Miitopia, but players are able to develop relationships between their party members. Each pair of Miis has a relationship level that determines how close they are with one another.

      What determines compatibility in Tomodachi Life? ›

      The Compatibility Tester is a location on the island in Tomodachi Collection and Tomodachi Life that the player can use to check two Miis likelihood to become friends or sweethearts. Same gender Miis can check their friendship rating, while opposite gender Miis can check their romance rating.

      How do you force a relationship in Tomodachi Life? ›

      You can't, you have to wait until a Mii shows feelings for another Mii.

      How do you increase relationship status in Tomodachi Life? ›

      When Miis go on vacations together via the travel ticket, their status will go up by one or two levels automatically. If a Mii takes their sweetheart/spouse on a date, then the relationships of both will increase.

      How do you get romance ranks in Tomodachi Life? ›

      Romance Ranking: Unlocks after testing two opposite-sex Miis 10 times. "Check out which of your island's couples are the best matches (based on compatibility tester)." Island Ranking: Unlocks after Streetpassing 5 times and having a traveler leave your island.

      Can Miis stop being best friends in Tomodachi Life? ›

      It is possible for two Miis to become best friends or lost their best friend status off-screen. Miis can no longer be best friends in the same way. It is possible that a Mii can dump their best friend by becoming best friends with another Mii. However, this will not cause any sadness.

      What is the maximum number of Miis you can have in Tomodachi Life? ›

      You can have up to 100 Miis living on your island. You can even transfer Mii characters from Mii Maker on Wii U™ to your Nintendo 3DS system.

      Does Kid O Matic wear off? ›

      Trivia. In the Japanese and Korean version, Age-o-matic is only temporary unless the child Mii is planning to get married. If the player deletes a Mii from a married child couple, the other Mii will automatically revert back to a kid without "The Age-o-matic wore off." message.

      What does sweetheart mean in a relationship? ›

      Your sweetheart is your boyfriend or your girlfriend. [old-fashioned] I married Shurla, my childhood sweetheart. Synonyms: love, boyfriend or girlfriend, beloved, lover More Synonyms of sweetheart.

      How do you propose in Tomodachi Life? ›

      For a Mii to propose, they need to have a Sweetheart. Usually when they propose, their relationship stage will most likely range from "Totally in love" to "Let's get married!".

      What time do Miis go to bed Tomodachi Life? ›

      Miis will start to fall asleep at around 9:30 PM. Here's a table to organize all of that information. In Tomodachi Collection, the environment changes gradually instead of there being four preset environments, but we do know that Night ends at 6:40 AM.

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