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Beachlovingirl · 03/06/2021 20:34

I have bought a beautiful dress from Maje for a wedding.

uk.maje.com/en/ready-to-wear/collection/dresses/120roman/MFPRO01274.html?dwvar_MFPRO01274_color=P003

I’ve tried it on with the usual strappy sandals and because of the pattern and the swingy skirt and the sleeves the sandals just don’t look quite right.

I was wondering if I could ever team this dress with boots for a wedding. The wedding won’t be super formal I would say just normal levels of formality. I also don’t know what the weather will be like and I think a lot of it will take place outside.

I’m thinking of teaming it with these

uk.maje.com/en/shoes/collection/booties-and-boots/221forchains/MFACH00411.html?dwvar_MFACH00411_color=2517

I’ve bought these items and I think they look great together but am I just fooling myself that this is wedding attire?

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Justmuddlingalong · 03/06/2021 20:40

I think there are a million styles and colours of footwear that would go with that dress for a wedding. Black ankle boots aren't one of them IMHO.

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ItsAHardKn0ckLife1 · 03/06/2021 20:42

Love the look, but not for a wedding, sorry OP!

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Blossomtoes · 03/06/2021 20:46

Please don’t. They’re both lovely individually. Awful together.

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StellaLeonte · 03/06/2021 20:54

I think the dress is absolutely gorgeous, but I don’t think the boots are a good addition. What about some smart white ankle boots so the outfit looks nice and summery and it’s more dressed up for a wedding?

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Divebar2021 · 03/06/2021 21:23

I quite like the idea of a flat shoe but think the black boot is too heavy for that dress. What about “ caged” shoes? These 2 give you different shapes although obviously heels are available too. I wasn’t particularly suggesting the black colour but I like the shape.

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Beachlovingirl · 03/06/2021 21:29

@StellaLeonte I also thought of a white boot but I haven’t seen any I really like enough.

@Divebar2021 I really like those black ones actually! I am going to look at more like that Can you ever wear boots to a wedding? - Mumsnet (3)

One of my thoughts was I can wear both items again so not just a pair of occasionwear sandals that join my others that are barely worn (and v uncomfortable) but I needed to hear that the dress and the boots just aren’t a great match. I knew it in my heart of hearts but didn’t want to admit it.

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minipie · 03/06/2021 21:35

I’ve worn heeled knee high boots to a wedding. Wouldn’t wear flat black bikery boots to a wedding though, too informal.

You could possibly wear some heeled tan ankle boots with that dress? If it’s not too formal a wedding? Would look best with matching accessories eg tan clutch bag

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Ohpulltheotherone · 03/06/2021 21:47

I think a heavier sandal or block heeled mule would suit.
You can absolutely wear the boots if you want, personally I wouldn’t but if it suits your style and vibe and the bride isn’t a precious one who expects everyone at black tie and co*cktail level then it’s fine!
I would absolutely wear a block heeled cream or white sandal or mule with that dress. It’s very nice!

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 03/06/2021 21:54

Lovely dress. No, no, no to the boots.

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 03/06/2021 21:54

And I have never seen a pair of white boots that look nice.

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Ninkanink · 03/06/2021 21:56

I’d wear that with white flats.

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Bluntness100 · 03/06/2021 21:57

I think they will look great together for a night out at the pub or a restaurant with your mates, but not for a wedding. No.

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Oly4 · 03/06/2021 21:58

Gorgeous dress, no you can’t wear boots

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Ninkanink · 03/06/2021 22:09

And with a green midi Mayfair bag from Aspinal. Or maybe a Lottie.

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SionnachRua · 03/06/2021 22:10

Like the boots, like the dress but not together for a wedding. They could be a lovely summer night out outfit, though.

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asparalite · 03/06/2021 22:18

The dress is really lovely, don't think the boots are particularly wedding attire, something like these maybe?

www.charleskeith.co.uk/gb/shoes/CK1-61680110_BLACK.html

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Iamthewombat · 03/06/2021 22:18

Boots are OK for a winter wedding at which you might have to walk through a muddy churchyard but in summer? No. And with that dress? No. You would look like a sulky 15 year old whose mother forced her into something smart but who thinks that she is sticking it to the man by wearing boots to spite the grown ups.

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Postdatedpandemic · 03/06/2021 22:19

Yes you can wear boots to a wedding. Maybe not those ones. Green or lilac ones?
www.yoox.com/uk/11771821LT/item?dept=women

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RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 03/06/2021 22:21

[quote Postdatedpandemic]Yes you can wear boots to a wedding. Maybe not those ones. Green or lilac ones?
www.yoox.com/uk/11771821LT/item?dept=women[/quote]
Oh dear. No!

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Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 03/06/2021 22:22

Definitely not.

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MoltonSilver · 03/06/2021 22:27

A teenager could probably pull it off but it won't look right on an adult.

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Iamthewombat · 03/06/2021 22:28

Have you just shown us a metallic lilac cowboy shoe boot? I fear that I have slipped into a fever dream.

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BackforGood · 03/06/2021 22:29

I mean, you can wear what you want, but it really isn't appropriate or normal wedding attire, no. As you say it is a relatively typically smart wedding, not an informal, jeans in a barn type wedding.

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Iamthewombat · 03/06/2021 22:30

Costing £232 (yes I followed the link. Metallic cowboy shoes all the way in the ads now!)

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Littleguggi · 03/06/2021 22:30

I've worn smart-ish black ankle boots to a wedding before, but it was a winter wedding so I didn't think anything of it!

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Can you ever wear boots to a wedding? - Mumsnet? ›

Yes you can wear boots to a wedding.

Is it inappropriate to wear boots to a wedding? ›

ARE BOOTS APPROPRIATE FOR A WEDDING? Absolutely. You can wear boots to a wedding, especially if you pick classic Chukka boots in neutral shades such as black or brown.

Can I wear boots to an autumn wedding? ›

Boots are perfect for Autumn/Winter and outdoor weddings and they are a great choice for keeping feet warm, dry and comfortable.

Is it OK to wear cowboy boots to a wedding? ›

Wedding theme: Cowboy boots are a great option for western or even boho-themed weddings, but not often the footwear of choice for black tie or contemporary weddings.

Can I wear boots to a winter wedding? ›

Boots look great with both a heel or no heel, and if you really want to bring the wow factor, opt for a pair of suede over the knee boots, which will also do wonders for keeping your legs warm. Winter weddings are a great chance for you to show off your style.

Can you wear boots to a formal event? ›

The short answer: Yes, you can wear boots with a suit. However, not every boot is suit appropriate. Your bulky winter boots will never complement your highly tailored attire. Only a classic style and a quality material will keep you looking sharp.

Can I wear bare legs to a wedding? ›

I have advised readers that while bare legs are fine even at the most formal events, hosiery also is perfectly acceptable as long as it's skin tone and sheer. I've just returned from a wedding where I wore my new bargain ($10!) black sequined mini and consignment store jeweled black shoes (also $10).

What shoes should a guest wear to a fall wedding? ›

We would recommend opting for a closed toe shoe or a classic court shoe. Autumn weddings can be either outdoors or indoors. During the colder autumn months, opt for a pair of closed toe shoes. While open or open toe shoes can be cute and classy, they tend to work better in warm-season weddings than autumn weddings.

Can you wear black tights and boots to a wedding? ›

Yes it's absolutely fine. Personally I wouldn't go bare legged to a wedding or other formal event anyway unless I was wearing a maxi but I'm old fashioned. It's a lovely dress. I think winter weddings are slightly different you don't have to wear lighter colours.

What not to wear to a fall wedding guest? ›

What Not to Wear to a Fall Wedding. While being mindful of the dress code is vital, making sure that your outfit is season-appropriate is just as important. More specifically, stay away from dresses that provide minimal coverage, and opt for looks with thicker fabrics if you're likely to be cold the entire time.

What should I avoid wearing to a wedding? ›

Avoid sequined ball gowns, sparkly tiaras, sky-high platform heels, or other articles of clothing that will draw attention away from the bride. A wedding isn't the proper time to make a bold fashion statement. If you're at a complete loss for an outfit, Sabatino suggests sticking with a long or short black dress.

When should you not wear cowboy boots? ›

Don't Wear with Shorts

Wearing very short bottoms is not advisable with boots because you will look like you're about to go ride a horse or a bull unless you are. Also, it will ruin your whole outfit by making you look like you're going to a Western-themed costume party.

Can you wear cowboy boots to a formal event? ›

Cowboy boots are a great way to add some western flair to your formal wear. Whether you're opting for a classic look or something more modern, choose the right color and fit of cowboy boots and dress shoes to help you create the perfect outfit.

Can men wear boots to a wedding? ›

So, to answer the question, you can wear men's boots with a suit to a wedding. However, not all kinds are appropriate. The bulky winter and work men's boots won't cut it. We suggest going for a classic style and a quality material so you will look sharp and dapper.

Can I wear boots to a barn wedding? ›

Regarding footwear, steer clear of sharp heels or anything that might sink into grass or between wood panels. Instead, Wedding Forward recommends block heels, boots, and wedges for a barn venue. Best of all, you can wear these comfortable shoes in your day-to-day life after the event.

What not to wear to a winter wedding? ›

Don't: Wear Extremely Thin Fabrics

Unless you're heading to a winter wedding at a tropical locale, skip ultra-thin fabrics such as mesh, lace, and chiffon in favor of warmer, thicker fabrics such as velvet, knits, and faux-fur outerwear that will keep you warm all night.

What is considered inappropriate to wear to a wedding? ›

Avoid sequined ball gowns, sparkly tiaras, sky-high platform heels, or other articles of clothing that will draw attention away from the bride. A wedding isn't the proper time to make a bold fashion statement. If you're at a complete loss for an outfit, Sabatino suggests sticking with a long or short black dress.

Are boots appropriate for a dress? ›

You can wear a tight, fitted dress, or a loose, short dress. Suede boots look good with a casual dress. Leather or pleather boots look better for a dress that is meant to be worn on a night out. Wear a short, flowing lace dress with a pair of brown over-the-knee boots.

Do people wear boots with dresses? ›

Wearing long dresses and boots

For a smarter look, go for a dress with a longer length, preferably down to your ankle, and wear either heeled ankle boots or knee-high boots. By layering delicate hemlines and ditsy floral prints you can create an easy and elegant look.

Can you wear boots to a black tie wedding? ›

Boots. Yes, you read that correctly. You can wear boots with a maxi dress to a black tie event. These are especially popular for outdoor black tie events in winter as they will prevent your feet from getting cold.

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