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Jackie Willis
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1:37 PM PDT, July 22, 2022
Audrina Patridge is opening up like never before about her time as a reality TV star and her past public romances. ET's Denny Directo spoke with The Hills star about what fans can expect from her new book, Choices: To the Hills and Back Again, which will be released on July 26.
In her memoir, Patridge writes about her intense connection with her on-off flame, Justin Bobby Brescia, and how she's never had that spark like that with anyone else. "Justin is always going to be that guy. Everyone has that guy," she explains of her ex. "I guess I haven't met anyone that I have felt that spark or that chemistrywith [like] him. Maybe I shouldn't compare that or try to find that again. I don't know."
The 37-year-old reality star adds, "It's like when you look at someone and you make eye contact and you feel like you've known them forever, but you just met. I haven't found that yet."
As for whether she'd ever rekindle her relationship with Justin Bobby, Patridge tells ET, "We're friendly. Italked to him maybe five or six months ago. Justin is a nomad. He is a traveler. He's a gypsy. I mean, there is no holding that guy down. I don't know where he is."
When it comes to Corey Bohan, her ex-husband and father of her 6-year-old daughter,Kirra, Patridge has no intention of starting that back up again. In fact, she admits that she "honestly did not want to include any" details of their relationshipin her book.
"He was such a huge part of my life, and it was no secret it was a toxic relationship. ...The divorce was public, so that's not something that I could just pretend, 'Oh,it never happened,'" she shares."I had to include that. So, it's done. I feel like I wanted it to be done in a very respectful way. Not thatI am bashing him, but this is the truth, and this is what happened and my perspective."
In the book, Patridge claims that Bohan was verbally abusive to her throughout their relationship, and often accused her of cheating on him.
"Atthe time I was like, 'Why is he accusing me of this?I would never do that.' Then three or four months later you find out, 'Oh, he was doing that,'" Patridge says, implying the 40-year-old BMX rider was unfaithful to her. "It was just a learning experience."
Patridge notes, "You’re blinded by love. You’re blind and then when you’re outside of that bubble and you wake up, you see everything so differently."
In her book, Patridge writes about a time when Bohan allegedly pushed her while she was holding their daughter. "That was the breaking point," she tells ET. "We were going through such a hard time. ...It's one thing if it was just me but when she was there and there's no self-control over your emotions and the fact that your child is right here, that did it for me."
In a statement to ET, Bohan denied the allegation.
"As far as her claims of me pushing her while holding Kirra that’s beyond anything that ever happened," the statement reads in part."Drunk etc while watching Kirra is absolutely made up."
"I was investigated by the DA’s office and did multiple evaluations, seen professional therapists, dealt with social workers, completed parenting courses, behavioral courses etc, seen andspoke with professionals covering everything and every subject you can think of," the statement also reads, referring to their highly publicized court battle. "I learnt a lot and still nothing about me raised alarms, nor was I found questionable andmost importantly did anything actually take place in regards to violence or child sexual abuse."
Meanwhile, it's the reality star's hope that her book can help other people get out of bad situations."I feel like a lot of women are afraid to leave a toxic relationship because they feel stuck, or they can't get out of it," she says. "You have to have a support system and you have to draw the line and have boundaries and work on yourself and get a therapist or have a best friend or someone. You need support, you can’t do it on your own."
Now that she's done "so much healing in therapy," Patridge admits that it's "a little cringey" to go back and watch who she was on The Hills."I see this young 19-year-old who has no idea what she's infor and and the relationships she is about to go through andwhat she’s about to experience in her life -- but with the public picking her apart," she explains."I was just so naive and young and innocent -- but so trusting."
Patridge says it was the birth of her daughter that made her look at life differently. "Motherhood changed me in so many ways. It changed my perspective on life, my perspective on people and situations and my future and my priorities. It just changed everything."
For more with Patridge, check outChoices: To the Hills and Back Again, out July 26.
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As an expert in celebrity culture and reality TV, I've closely followed the career of Audrina Patridge, a prominent figure in the reality television series "The Hills." Patridge has recently provided insights into her personal life and experiences in an interview with ET's Denny Directo, shedding light on her upcoming memoir, "Choices: To the Hills and Back Again," scheduled for release on July 26, 2022.
In her memoir, Audrina Patridge delves into her complex relationship with Justin Bobby Brescia, a fellow cast member on "The Hills." She expresses the intensity of their connection and describes him as the one with whom she experienced a unique spark and chemistry. Patridge reflects on the challenges of finding a similar connection with anyone else, highlighting the profound impact of their on-off relationship.
When asked about the possibility of rekindling her relationship with Justin Bobby, Patridge acknowledges their friendship but notes the challenges due to his nomadic and adventurous lifestyle. This adds a layer of realism to her narrative, showcasing the complexities of maintaining relationships amidst the demands of a public and unpredictable lifestyle.
Another significant aspect of Patridge's memoir involves her ex-husband, Corey Bohan, with whom she shares a 6-year-old daughter named Kirra. Patridge openly discusses the toxicity of their relationship and addresses the public divorce. She emphasizes her decision to include details about the relationship in her book, aiming for a respectful portrayal of the truth and her perspective.
Patridge makes serious allegations against Bohan, claiming verbal abuse and accusing him of infidelity. She recounts a troubling incident where Bohan allegedly pushed her while she was holding their daughter, describing it as a breaking point in their tumultuous relationship. Bohan denies these allegations in a statement to ET, citing investigations, evaluations, and court battles that found no evidence of wrongdoing on his part.
Throughout the interview, Patridge emphasizes the importance of her book in helping others facing similar challenges in toxic relationships. She encourages women to seek support, set boundaries, and work on personal growth. Her own journey of healing through therapy is highlighted, underscoring the transformative power of seeking professional help in overcoming trauma.
As an enthusiast with a deep understanding of celebrity narratives and reality TV dynamics, I find Audrina Patridge's revelations in this interview to be a compelling blend of personal vulnerability and the challenges of navigating fame, relationships, and motherhood in the public eye. The memoir promises an intimate look into the highs and lows of Patridge's life, offering readers a chance to empathize with her journey and, perhaps, find inspiration in her resilience.
